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Wedding Shoe Game Questions: 60Funny, Sweet & Spicy Ideas

The shoe game is a wedding classic for a reason: quick to explain, no stage production required, and guaranteed laughs. Below you will find how it works plus 60 ready-to-use questions — from wholesome to cheeky. Copy them as-is, or turn your favorites into a printable wedding quiz.

How the shoe game works

  1. The couple sits back-to-back on two chairs.
  2. Each removes their shoes and holds one of their own and one of their partner’s.
  3. A host reads “Who…?” questions out loud.
  4. Both raise the shoe of the person they think the answer applies to — the room sees instantly whether you agree.

Tip: Start mild and build up. Fifteen to twenty-five questions is plenty for a great arc.

Turn favorite questions into a printable quiz

Same design language as your crossword — print-ready PDF for guests to fill in.

Everyday life & relationship

  1. Who said “I love you” first?
  2. Who proposed?
  3. Who plans the vacations?
  4. Who cooks more often?
  5. Who tidies up more?
  6. Who is late more often?
  7. Who makes most everyday decisions?
  8. Who says “sorry” first?
  9. Who is the better driver?
  10. Who gives longer speeches?
  11. Who loses their phone more often?
  12. Who owns more shoes?

Funny & cheeky

  1. Who snores louder?
  2. Who is the bigger morning grump?
  3. Who takes longer in the bathroom?
  4. Who steals the last bite from their partner’s plate?
  5. Who gives in first during an argument?
  6. Who is more jealous?
  7. Who talks in their sleep?
  8. Who is worse at cooking?
  9. Who secretly watches ahead in your shows?
  10. Who has worse music taste?
  11. Who is the bigger mess?
  12. Who embarrasses themselves in public more often?

A little spicy

  1. Who is the better flirt?
  2. Who makes the first move?
  3. Who is more romantic?
  4. Who fell in love first?
  5. Who makes their partner weak in the knees?
  6. Who kisses longer?
  7. Who looks better in the morning?
  8. Who gets their way with a smile?
  9. Who is the better dancer?
  10. Who gives better compliments?
  11. Who had more admirers?
  12. Who blushes faster?

Want these as a printed guest quiz instead?

Sweet & heartfelt

  1. Who says “thank you” more often?
  2. Who comforts better?
  3. Who remembers more anniversaries?
  4. Who sends the sweeter messages?
  5. Who is more patient?
  6. Who plays nurse when their partner is sick?
  7. Who cries at romantic movies?
  8. Who is the rock when things get tough?
  9. Who makes their partner laugh when it matters?
  10. Who says “I’m proud of you” more often?
  11. Who introduced their partner to the family first?
  12. Who believes more in forever?

Future & “us”

  1. Who wants (more) kids?
  2. Who saves, who spends?
  3. Who wants the bigger house?
  4. Who plans further ahead?
  5. Who handles the finances?
  6. Who wants to travel more?
  7. Who will get a pet first?
  8. Who will be the stricter parent?
  9. Who remembers relatives’ birthdays?
  10. Who will say “I told you so” more often?
  11. Who cooks Sunday family dinner?
  12. Who will still hold hands at 80?

Same questions also work as a written “How well do you know the couple?” quiz at the tables — guests guess, you reveal later. Pair it with a wedding crossword or wedding bingo for a full reception game set.

Design your personal wedding quiz

Enter questions, pick a design, print as PDF.